Feb 16, 2009

In the village

"There is no night so dark, so black as night in the country"

When I step out of the house without a light, night wraps his arm around me and draws me into his pitch black belly.
At full moon the village is illuminated by her rays, the stars dotted across the sky mirror the majesty of an awesome God.
The magical glow worms darting, on the grass, in the air, on my shoulder – now I see them, now I don’t. Just when I think I have figured out their path they disappear, it's fascinating.

I hear animals conversing in the dark, the owl hooting in the distance, birds tweeting goodnight. Sounds of the chicken, roosters, turkeys and ducks fluffing their feathers as they each look for a cozy nook in the tree.
The drunken man's gibberish soliloquy as he stumbles home after an evening of ajon drinking with friends.

Ah! The sounds of the night.
I drift off to sleep in a world where silence takes centre stage.


5 o’clock in the morning, the roosters across the village dutifully crow – “coco-lio-kokooooo arise and shine, a new day is upon us” and the turkeys clucks “kulukulukulu, true true true, it’s getting bright indeed”
The sheep and goats bleat as the care taker tugs them along to be tethered in the bushes.
The cows raise their voices to say “good mooooorning”.
Ochan makes a clicking sounds with his tongue as he lures the cow to the milking shed. He pats her back to calm her down then he ever so gently but firmly draws milk from her udder into his bucket. Her tail hits his face from time to time as she swipes insects off her back. She enjoys the stroke of his fingers, it soothes her once aching udders.

I tried to milk a cow once but never got more than a few drops into the bucket.

The smell of fresh cow dung whiffs up into the air, as if to remind me that I am in the country.

The villagers get up at the crack of dawn and head straight to their gardens, weeding, digging, planting or harvesting, depending on the time of the year.

Grandma says 6 o’clock is the best time to plough the land, it’s the coolest time of day and the fresh morning dew softens the soil.

8 o’clock grandma is sitting at the entrance of her hut churning milk in her favorite gourd.

I relish the sound that it makes as she shakes it to a rhythm – chachung, chachung, chachung.
Later she emerges from her hut with eritey, a local tray.

She strides through the kraal and the neighborhood looking for fresh dang. When asked to help, Simon and I giggle and scamper away.

See, dang is the glue that holds her tray together, it seals all the holes so her millet grains don't filter through gaping holes.

10 o'clock the villagers and farmers, return carrying their hoes, sticks, sickles and pangas each one peeling away from the crowd as they reach their respective huts, they wave to the rest who have a longer distance to cover.
Time for breakfast, a few leftovers from last nights supper, roasted or boiled cassava, g nuts, sweet potatoes and a cup of milk, black tea, porridge, water, oranges, mangoes.

Feb 15, 2009

God of My Days

You awaken my heart
From slumbering
Meet me in mourning
And you speak to my grief
You're the light in my darkness
The delight of my eyes
The hope of the daybreak
When the sun's slow to rise

I trust that every moment's in your hands
You're the God of my days
The King of my nights
Lord of my laughter
Sovereign in sorrow
You're the Prince of my praise
The love of my life
You never leave me
You are faithful
God of my days

You unveil my eyes
Help me to see
The arms of my Father
Encircling me
You're a constant companion
I am never alone
Your love is the banner
That's leading me home

My eyes are on You
My hope is in You
My faith is in You

My eyes are on You
My hope is in You
My faith is in You

By Gateway worship

Feb 13, 2009

The Val' party

You know? I found out that valentines day is sweet after all, (quite apart from all the candy), it's a fun day in children's lives.I have decided that it's best enjoyed in pre-k and kindergarten after that things take a different turn.
Mich had a valentines party at his school today, you should have seen his classroom. It was decorated with all sorts of cute things, balloons, flowers, candy, red ribbons, candy, oh and candy :-). Mich said "mummy on valentines day you get so many candies, you can't even eat them all in one day". True, I nodded to that.
All the kids were dressed in red except my main man (too much maalo on our part), thankfully he didn't notice, he was really excited about the day.
Mich got some interesting presents, I thought they were creative, cute and curious.


This one for example was from one of the boys in his class, thankfully there is nothing more to it.

This was another one from a boy. Interesting... they are just pictures right?

Happy Valentines

Feb 10, 2009

Preschool, pretty girls and valentines

I didn't hear much about this day until I was at University.
Over here it fits right in there with Christmas, Easter and Thanksgiving

I remember how during my first year on campus the place would go into a buzz as the day drew near - people praying for cards and flowers, others making sure things were good between them and their boyfriends. Me trying to fit in but not really getting it because I didn't have "a" boyfriend but had boys who were my friends.

I shared a room with a girl who took this day a little too seriously, she sat up all night "val" eve waiting for the clock to strike midnight hoping that her boy friend would show up with flowers, or else . So while some of us tried to get some sleep she was checking the clock and talking away.

Guess what?! it struck midnight, 10 passed, 20 passed, and there was no knock at the door. After a while she calmed down, figured this dream wasn't going to come true and resigned herself to sleep.
On the d-day, there was lots of talk about who had received flowers, who was still in waiting, who had broken up, who had chosen to "cut" lectures, who fell sick, the whole shebang.
My dear roomie finally got her bouquet after a whole day of nerves and then we had to sit quietly in the case of those who didn't.

Mich brought home a circular with the names of all his classmates, apparently he is supposed to write a val card for each of them.


People, he is only 4, what will he be learning by the time he is in grade school? Am I becoming old school already?
What is the concept here? I get the idea of appreciating your classmates and all but you should have seen his frustration when he was signing cards for kids he barely knew. I explained to him how all his classmates are special and that it would make them feel good (plus we have to abide by school rules).

I was at a loss for words when he said "only the pretty girls get cards", then he mentioned names of the girls who were pretty and the ones who were not. Obviously I had several questions - where did you get that idea?, who makes for a pretty girl? who doesn't? eish!!!



What I wonder about is whether it's a day for celebrating friendships? a day for lovers? a day for secret admirers? a day to state intentions? all of the above??
Is it supposed to go both ways? or is it just the guys giving the ladies? (but giving a guy a bouquet is just wrong).

Does it depend on the crowd? say for example;
If you're in kindergarten - your classmates, teacher and parents
In high school - your crash
In college - your date, some one you secretly admire
Work - making your intentions known
Married - your spouse, or in some cases someone you secretly admire
Maybe I should research this whole Valentines day thing but I must say who ever thought it up/ created it/ whatever, would be happy to know that things go crazy around this time every year.

Oh by the way in case you were wondering, to my shock and surprise I did get a Valentines card that first year on campus and only figured out the sender 3 years later.

Feb 8, 2009

Heart to Heart

Church was just the best today.

It's nice to walk into church and say hello to people, give hugs, handshakes, smiles that kind of thing. Since I'm still a newie I'm taking it slow but it's just great having all these people rushing over to say hello. It's clear they are not doing it out of duty but genuine concern.
I like that after the worship we get to greet our neighbours. Which reminds me of what that felt like in KPC, I actually believe people prayed that Pastor Gary/Chris/Julius would not say "turn around and greet your neighbor". The times I was not in the choir I sat around some people who kept their eyes glued to the pulpit, kinda like they had neck trouble.
Then it was like they didn't hear when the pastor actually said turn and greet your neighbor, but maybe it was just me.

Okay, I was telling you about service today. So I walked in feeling a little distant from God, my prayer was "Lord, draw me close to you".
Ann (the worship leader) did a number that reminded me of my backup days in the choir with my girls - Sheila, Edna and Flash, sweet memories.
Now, that was like song number two, song number three was "Lord Iam amazed by you", I really got in and was telling God how amazed I was.
Right there, at the moment God and I had a conversation that went somewhat like this,

God-"are you really amazed by me?"
Me - "ye..",
God - "if you are then what's all the fretting about?, is it to say I can't?"

See, Sam and I are facing a pretty tough situation right now and I must admit there has been doubt, fear, wondering how we going to pull through this, thinking maybe we dreamed too big and out of God's will.
These questions stopped me in my tracks.
Wow! I get the point Lord, I do.

While I was still getting my head around that, song number four "Be still" literally opened the taps, memories of Nziiza came flooding back - I was undone.

And then we sang "How Great is our God", my, my! absolutely powerful.
The the pastor wrapped it up for me by preaching a sermon entitled "No Loss is Too Devastating For God" and then this video of Derek Redmond.

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